![]() ![]() What DO I LIKE about intimacy with my husband? (Not a response like, when I do “this” he enjoys it). But if I were, to be honest, I never ask myself the big question. At least that is what I tend to show on my Facebook page and quickly respond to my friends at church. You know that deep quiet voice that I tend to ignore.īecause, (ahem!) of course, I know I’m just fine. I never ask myself why I do not want my husband’s touch tonight…AND actually, let myself answer. In my life, I’ve realized I expect honesty from everyone in my life (my children, my friends, my husband, the guy who mows my lawn)…but I never am honest with myself. It’s time for honest communication with my husband and let him know that I’m not ready tonight. So what is the key to good intimacy? The key is simple, Find What You LIKE!!! First of all. Truth be told before I heard that song I probably wouldn’t have chosen those to be my favorite but after years of listening to the song. Raindrops on roses, and whiskers on kittens, bright copper kettles, and warm woolen mittens. How can I like something that some days I genuinely don’t like it? Don’t want it? Don’t want to be bothered? The key is simple.Īll Julie Andrews fans know, the song “These are a few of my Favorite Things.” I want the first serving, fresh out of the oven and still piping hot. Sure the dog loves it, but I don’t want leftovers. Kind of like the leftovers you scrape off the plate that you give to the dog. Give your husband his due benevolence and (maybe?) you’ll like it too. The information that I read in counseling books in regards to intimacy. Hopefully, I’m not going be called insane for posting this, but why do I think that this ONE THING will be different.īecause that is the advice that I find and I’m told in marital blogs. So if the thought “just do it, and eventually you’ll like it” hasn’t applied to me in 35+ years, why do I think it will work in regards to intimacy with my husband? Insanity has been defined as “doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.” The three pizza boxes from a quick Saturday evening dinner were taken to the trash. But the point remains, just doing the task repeatedly has not changed my opinion on the issues. And yet, I still do those things (ok, well most of the time I have my kids do them, but that is good parenting and another topic for another blog post). I still do not like taking out the trash. Over and over again.Īnd you know what? The outcome still doesn’t change. Give him what he wants, and hopefully, you’ll like it too. No, it’s solely with intimacy with your husband. Never with loving your children, getting new friends, or learning how to paint a fence. I have heard that phrase a lot in regards to intimacy. Sunshine on a rainy day, everybody come and play.I have. Mushroom clouds, look hooray drift drift fade away Raindrops Circle circle dot dot floating past the kush crop listen to the water drop, double double raindrop Raindrops Hop hop hop drip drop. Took a tab lost control tripping in a wormhole Everyone smiles as you smell all the flowers that grow so incredibly high Raindrops on roses Circle circle dot dot now you got your cootie shot did you see the rabbit hop hop hop double drop Raindrops Floating down the river yay close your eyes it's ok. Raindrops on roses, whiskers on kittens Raindrops Listen to the water drops a little bit of micro dot double double raindrop listen to the water drops x2 Raindrops x2 Listen to the water drops dropping down the rabbit hole. Picture yourself on a boat on a river with magical trees and mushroom pies. ![]()
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